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The Question:
Will a man take you seriously if you have sex on the first date?
Ian says:
I believe so. Its all about how the woman presents herself to be taken, Heaven knows there are enough men and women out there who are just trash. But a woman who represents herself in a positive and serious manner in the first place will always be taken seriously by any decent man. There are of course exceptions to the rule. Your typical male chauvinist pig will not take a woman seriously in any light simply because she is a woman. most men (myself included) try not to be around these types of jersey wearing beer drinking used car salesmen.
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We posed another question to a panel of hot dateable men. The question?
"What SHOULDN'T women do on the first date?"
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Mike B
50
California
Show up late.
Duane
34
California
Talk on the phone or
text.
Mark
39
California
Don't talk ab out
marriage or exes
Robert Lee
53
Washington
No Sex. Be careful how
you drink, and don't
discuss old boyfriends.
Ian
39
California
Don't tell me about
your cheating ex. It
tells me you're not
ready to date again;
Robert
46
California
Not be yourself.
Diogenes
California
There are a lot of
things a woman
shouldn't do on the first
date. She shouldn't
lead her date on. She
should be straight
forward from the start
so that when her date
thinks about crossing
boundaries, he knows
he's out of pocket and
she knows he's
probably not the one
for her. And keep it
real ladies. the time for
B.S, drama, triv and
nonsense are past.
Andy
49
California
Touch anywhere below
the belt.
Pete
42
Oregon
Want to go to bed on
the first date.
Brian
36
California
Texting on their phone
while you are on a
date, or at dinner....i
once left a date at a
restaurant cause it was
pissing me off...then
she called me and
asked where i was....i
hung up and texted her
back....im gone...lol
Jack
37
California
You mean like besides
bodily sounds?? How
about not talk about
their ex(s), or their
pets, a little of that is
okay, but can get
ridiculous quick. Also
they should avoid
sharing too much
about their therapy
sessions...
Mickey
52
California
Meet him at his place
alone.
JD
52
California
Don't be loud and
obnoxious.
Phil
37
Michigan
Talk about marriage
Donovan
38
California
they shouldn't talk
about their exes, good
or bad.
they shouldn't say
they're looking for
marriage and kids. too
soon.
they shouldn't have
sex, but they should
definitely kiss.
they shouldn't have
more than 3 drinks.
they shouldn't cuss or
talk about anything
negative.
they shouldn't talk only
about themselves.
William
51
California
You want to kiss then
kiss..if you want to
touch him do it. .We
are not kids any more!
I want too feel you want
me and not that it's just
to replace someone
else
Andrew
42
California
Depends on the man.
I've fallen for women
who put out on the first
date and for some who
made me wait; that
said, if a woman wants
a man, she should
make him wait until she
knows him well and
knows the people
closest to him. Blow
jobs are a sure way to
become a guy's booty
call and nothing more.
Carlos
40
California
Women shouldn't kiss
on the first date.
Matt
California
Divulging too much
personal information to
the point of feeling
awkward. I don't want
to hear too many sad
stories right when I
meet you. First
impressions mean a lot
and I want to remember
you as a fun gal.
Matt
40
California
Flirting with other men
while out. You're there
with me, show me some
respect.
Roger
43
California
Come on too strong,
men don't want to feel
pressured into
anything and they don't
like easy women either,
at least at my age they
don't!